Monday, August 31, 2015

Michigan Trip

The kids and I were able to take a trip up to Michigan for a couple of weeks starting at the end of July. Andrew was only able to join us for the last weekend as he had some work and Army obligations so Auntie Jen flew out to NJ and drove with the kids and I up to Michigan. We of course had to stop by Carlos Bakery and see the Statue of Liberty the morning she flew in.


Road Trip! Kids did great!
 So, the original reason we went up to Michigan was because the Dominican Sisters of Mary, Mother of the Eucharist were having their First Profession Mass and Ceremony which is open to the public. Sr Jamie didn't make her first vows yet (2 more years) BUT the night before, in a private ceremony she received her white habit and her new name...which is Sr Cora Rose. SO beautiful: the name and habit. Sr. Cora Rose was her first pick but it the Mother Superior with the Holy Spirits guidance that makes the final decision, and she got her first pick! Sr. Jamie has always had a devotion to Saint Rose of Lima so that's where Rose comes from and Cora means "Heart" in a different language (I don't remember which one, latin or greek or something). She liked Cora because it reminded her of Jesus's Sacred Heart....and from a letter she had written us a couple of months ago "It is because of the love and mercy from His Heart that I was healed from my past sins and felt all His love for me. The soldier pierced His side so that us sinners could have access to His Heart. Even if I don't do anything extremely spectacular in this life, I at least want people to remember me as my living and loving with a heart like Christ"
It was such a blessing to see her and for the amount of time that we did! I thought we'd be able to see her for like a half hour but we got to spend a couple of hours with her and she gave us a tour of the Motherhouse!

After the ceremony we all headed up to my dad's cottage on a small lake called Lost Lake in northern Michigan (parents were with us too). We celebrated my moms birthday with lots of dancing and a big delicious chocolate cake!
Malachi's first motorboat ride

Dancing it up for Grammy's bday


 
Anneliese started walking just about 100% of the time while at the lake.


My mom and I took this exact picture in 1989, my mom was pregnant with Robin and I was 2 years old!

Malachi caught his first fish!

Who knew acorns could be SO entertaining? The kids played with them the entire time.
 The house on Lost Lake has been in my Dad's family for 46 years I hadn't been there for over 10. We look forward to going back next summer when Andrew can join us!
 Andrew was able to fly to Detroit after his 10 day military commitment in Oregon and attend my cousins wedding with us. He even flew in a day early and surprised us!

Anneliese was a dancing maniac!

Malachi was Mr. Cool

And mommy loved that the kids could play in the "Gardens"
The next day we drove home, this was after we attended Mass in Toledo and received a marriage blessing since our anniversary is in August!

Construction added an extra 4-5 hrs to our trip...Andrew had to do something to keep himself and Malachi occupied as we sat motionless. His "stereo headband" was from a kids meal at Wendys.
As much as I enjoyed seeing family and spending time at the lake, I was very appreciative to see my husband again and be in our own home. No more big trips for us this summer and I am happy to stay in one place for a while!


Monday, July 6, 2015

Our littlest one-baby #3 *Updated*

So two days before we left Oregon we had our anatomy ultrasound and got to see baby #3. It was great to see the little one kicking, open and closing it's mouth and the little heartbeat beating away. We feel so blessed to have everything look as it should. We were 22 weeks at that time and now 2 days away from 26 weeks!
 
His or Her little nose pointing up. Neck and body is to the left


I love this picture because we have one of Malachi in utero just like it. The baby is flipped from the pictures above... See the legs going up over his/her head? The baby's knee is at the chin and foot at his/her forehead, to the left of the picture, his/her body is at the right of the picture.

Here's a picture of Malachi in the same position:
 

This was taken on Father's Day,  23 and half weeks along!
 

Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Dumping Debt Series

Okay so I'm SUPER behind on keeping you guys updated on our Total Money Makeover and apologize that I've completely dropped the ball on this. 
Here's a snapshot on where we're at with dumping debt.
 ***I wrote this back in April but never posted it. I've added even more of an update at the bottom***
 
Things have been a little rough financially since moving to New Jersey. Everything is so much more expensive....food, rent, auto insurance, and of course the fact that any time we want to go home we have to purchase tickets instead of just spending money on gas(yes we've been budgeting to pay for those flights but it's still an extra expense we didn't have before). AND we are paying out of pocket for Andrew to fly back to Oregon for all of his military obligations...a tough decision we had to make but feel good about what we decided (yes you may think we're crazy). Anyway, the first couple of months of living here we haven't had a whole lot of extra money to put towards debt.

BUT, on a good note we have been able to use cash envelopes which we weren't able to do in Canada. How cash envelopes work is at the beginning of the month or twice a month...however you want to do it, you get cash for different categories that are budgeted and place them in your envelope labeled with those categories. Then before you make a purchase you have to decide which envelope it comes from and use that cash to pay for the items. When the envelope is empty, no more spending till the next month when you fill it back up! For example groceries, we budget $285 for groceries (that amount was perfect back on the west coast but we've found that we may need to bump it up a bit now since things are not as cheap but we haven't done so just yet.). So, every time I go grocery shopping I take money from the grocery envelope and pay for the items...it's pretty simple. It really helps stay on track because you "feel it more" when you spend cash...you literally see the money going out rather than just swiping a card and looking at it later. It keeps you on track! Things like utilities don't have cash envelopes because we just pay them online with our debit card. 

As for our debt, remember we paid off the Army Career Starter Loan in Oct. and only have Andrew's school loan left. During our move we were not paying more than just the minimum because we wanted to make sure we had extra money for the deposit on our rental and anything else that may come up. So to say it quite frankly, we have not been making any progress for several months now. It's disheartening because we haven't made any advancements toward our goal and August 4 will be here before we know it! Plus, here's another thing, remember how we were banking debt money in our savings when we were expecting Anneliese....well we're right back at that again. If you don't remember, the reason is because Dave Ramsey suggests to pile up a bunch of savings (extra money that would have originally been paid towards debt) when you are expecting a baby or a job loss. That way you have extra money to take care of things if need be. It really helped us last pregnancy because we had to pay the doctors out of pocket and then we got reimbursed from insurance a little bit later (that's how the Global plan worked, since we were living in Canada). With Anneliese's delivery, her and I were both healthy and we didn't need to use any of that money we had saved and so that was the big payment in October that bumped us over the halfway mark. SO, assuming this pregnancy and baby is just as healthy we will be able to put any money we've "banked" towards loans but no sooner than October.

I'm going to be honest, Andrew and I were bummed that even if we are able to save enough money to pay off loans (but it'd be sitting in savings for baby emergency) we wouldn't officially be debt free till past our goal of Aug 4. We started to think and discuss if we really actually needed to bank money or if we'd be okay without saving extra during this pregnancy. Then of course shortly after that discussion Andrew was listening to Dave Ramsey and a lady called in asking our exact question. Dave had a good point, he said "even if insurance covers 100% of bills, what if the baby had an emergency and needed to be flown to a specialty hospital....wouldn't it be nice to know you had extra money to be able to hop on an airplane without worrying about how to pay for that ticket, hotel and food?" That was a good enough explanation for Andrew and I, so we've started putting extra money in savings rather than towards our last debt. Besides, assuming we are blessed with a healthy delivery and baby, that money will go directly towards our debt anyway, it'll just in in October or November instead of August....not really a big deal is it? The answer is no...haha...but it still took us a little bit to get past the idea of not making our goal. 
So that's where we're at. Still trying to figure things out with our budget here in New Jersey and banking any extra money we have for baby emergency.

Hope this all makes sense...I always feel like I try to cram so much information in one big breath on these posts. If you have any questions feel free to ask! =)

**Update** So I wrote this post back in April. At that time we were super bummed about not making our goal. However in April we received a large amount of money for "Tax Equalization"...meaning Andrews employer was making up for taking too much out of his paychecks when we were living in Canada since they weren't exactly sure how much to take out, with us living in a foreign country and all. Seeing that large amount in our savings (remember? our baby bank until Oct) has helped us to be okay with not making our goal and now we're trying really hard to add to it so that maybe we can just make ONE final payment...how awesome would that be?
And for those wondering, we only have about $20,000 of debt left!

Taken from Dave Ramsey's Instagram
 

Friday, June 26, 2015

Fathers Day 2015

This past weekend was our first full weekend home after our trip to Oregon. I was SO looking forward to spending all weekend with Andrew and doing little projects around the house. So excited that I became REALLY annoyed when he came home from work Thursday night with a fever and sore throat. Oh and I should mention that both kids had had a fever and diarrhea throughout the week....what fun for my birthday week right? But God had a blessed weekend planned for me even though I was being a negative nancy and thought for sure I was going to get sick next.
Andrew felt tons better Friday night and it just so happened that we all were healthy for the weekend, Praise the Lord (literally, I really was saying prayers of thanksgiving).
 
Saturday morning we spent over 2 hours in Lowes getting supplies for picnic tables, insect tents, dreaming about getting a nice patio umbrella, a small wire fence for the backyard and other odds and ends.
Within 5 hours of getting back to the house Andrew had a kids picnic table and an adult table made and on our patio. I couldn't believe he got it all done, and only by watching a youtube video, great job Handsome!
Sunday, Fathers Day, we went to mass, stopped by Costco (it seems we can only find pants that fit Andrew at Costco and for what seems to be really cheap!), picked up some hanging flower baskets at a local florist then came home to mow the lawn and enjoy our backyard together.
It was absolutely wonderful!

Hard at work, I forgot to mention we cleaned the garage too. Plenty of work space now!

The kids table


 

View of the back yard from sitting in the shade.
 

I've been wanting to do our own "family photoshoot" like we did impromptu two years ago on father's day. Funny how both times the kids were only in
 diapers. =) (I can't find the other set of pics to compare...sorry).

 
 


Not all the pics were as cute as the ones above


Andrew opening his "Thank you, God, for Daddy" kids book and "Home to a Soldier" sign

Happy Fathers day Andrew, Dad and Dada!

This last visit to OR was Malachi's first time calling my parents Grammy and Grandpa...although at times it sounded like he was saying Meatball instead of Grandpa.
 
 
 


Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Anneliese Turns 1!

 
 
Just like that Anneliese has turned one years old. We had the pleasure of celebrating with family in Oregon the morning before flying back to NJ (that morning was the only time that would work with Andrew's military training schedule, which by the way was in Hawaii!).
Andrew's sister and husband graciously hosted all of us. It was a wonderful morning celebration!
 

It seemed impossible to get her to smile!

But finally got one smile
 



Presents! Thanks everyone for the adorable outfits and gifts

Happy 1st Birthday Anneliese!


Thursday, May 14, 2015

11 months!

Welp, whether I can believe it or not....one more month and our
little girl turns 1!!
We're in Oregon visiting family and friends, so Anneliese's 11 month pictures are at my parents house on her newfound favorite chair. (Yes we had to be clever and talk Malachi into letting her have it for the pictures, as it's his favorite too.)
 
We've borrowed Auntie Marjon's walker and are trying to get Anneliese walking before heading back to the East side. It's the same walker Malachi learned on. Both kids are really enjoying playing with their cousins, aunties and grandparents...although all three of us are really missing Daddy.